Conditioning makes people to question their worth, value, beauty, self belief and self trust, even themselves.
Conditioning conditions people to follow a path set up for them before they were even born. The same predictable, default, identical path for each of us since decades. Education, work, 9-5, taxes, holidays 2 x year, set up celebrations, set up religion, moralities, traditions, thinking and reacting shaped by generations, hardly updated, if so then with black Fridays, etc. ( there is some good stuff too, definitely).
HOW CAN YOU BELIEVE IN YOURSELF FULLY and UNAPOLOGETICALLY, HOW CAN YOU BE CONFIDENT AND STAND IN YOUR AUTHENTIC & UNIQUE TRUTH & talk about it with confidence when you follow what you don’t enjoy and believe in, but instead you nod to, even if you don’t agree with it. No, you cannot. I couldn’t. You are not trained in that.
We follow because it was given to us, because we were told to, because everybody’s follows, because just a couple of us question. Because we are conditioned to pretend. We are conditioned to pointless and soul-sucking small talks.
We are so well trained in that.
And if somebody starts to question they are seen as outcasts because they endanger the status quo of those who follow.
How do you expect to activate your confidence and self-belief if you follow, if you choose to follow if you choose to behave by default and be a slave of your reactive mind?
The are not shortcuts about this stuff. You can activate and explode your self-belief, self-trust, self-confidence only from the inside out. I am talking about sustainable, not a temporary confidence.
The one that you cannot buy, polish or pump up for a brief period. Cars and diamonds won’t replace it. You develop your inner confidence when you don’t neglect to practice who you are FOR REAL when you don’t take a day off from your truth when you don’t turn off the tap of life& when you quit leaking limitations in.
Self-belief comes from following yourself, trusting that your heart, your inner element, YOUR Compass knows better and not a set up, expired model.