Playing small because of the past?

You even don’t realize how powerful you are.
The point is that you perceive yourself, your next level results, capabilities, achievements, potential, enthusiasm and motivation’s level, ideas, mental and physical capacities through the lenses of your current results, abilities, achievements, thoughts, habits and present opportunities.

Muhamad Ali was an amateur at an early career stage, before he became THE GREATEST!

If you shared with somebody your opinion about something in the past, and you were hurt, taken in a wrong way, misinterpreted, ignored, disrespected, judged, confronted in any shape or form (experienced ANY SORT OF PAIN) most probably from now on, you will be reluctant to do it again, because of uploaded into your subconsciousness an unconscious pain you experienced in the past. Or if you do it, isn’t it a rather hesitant walk like on eggshells…
UNLESS YOU DEALT WITH IT.
If you attempted a goal and you didn’t hit it, you will be reluctant to do it again, because of an unconscious pain (didn’t hit it) you experienced in the past.
UNLESS YOU DEALT WITH IT.
If you burnt your finger touching a candle, you wouldn’t touch it again most probably you will be reluctant to do it again, because of an unconscious pain (a burnt finger) you experienced in the past.
UNLESS YOU DEALT WITH IT.
If you were told in the past by someone, that you won’t be ever able to sing, speak a foreign language, or get better at something, you would be reluctant to attempt it again, because of the pain of somebody’s negative opinion you experienced in the past.
UNLESS YOU DEALT WITH IT.
I am here to tell you that whatever happened to you, it had to happen for you to grow and learn from it, NOT TO STOP YOU. I understand that it might be hard to understand. But if you try…
”A gem” is very often wrapped in a difficulty or a problem. Therefore, we fail to recognize it as a blessing. Like piece of a coal before it turns into a diamond.
Can you see you lack on self-love, self-respect, self-trust, self-belief by looking at yourself through the lenses only of those experiences?
Can you see that you are steered by your past, unconscious rules, people, memories, by your reactions and interpretations of that past event?
Can you see how you rob yourself of a potential turning point in your life just because you are still thinking about that person or story or past problem?
Can you see that you don’t allow yourself to try again just because of that past episode?
Can you see how you have been doing a disservice to yourself for so long?
Can you see that your repeat a pattern developed ages ago and that it completely has you?
If you want to END it, END it.
Commit, dedicate yourself, empower yourself, back up yourself and see each difficulty as a blessing if you want to detach from the past and embrace your presence with love and inspiration.
Learn to PERCEIVE and REFRAME each difficulty into a benefit, and assistance to become better version of yourself.
Stop living in your box and ACT daily beyond your comfort zone, 10-20 %.
It will mean to feel a bit fear, discomfort, not knowing what’s next.
It will mean to trust yourself and abandon control.
It will mean to do the work that your BETTER version would do.
It will mean to do the NEW for the first time.
It will mean to get out of your mental space and allow to be carried by wings and wisdom of higher intelligence.
DAILY, CONSCIOUSLY, ON REPEAT!
Only then you will shift gradually towards your UNKNOWN POTENTIAL.
Your potential is like your imagination.
You can’t make it wrong.
No holds barred.
There are no rules, conditions, norms you have to stick to.
It is a space where you do what you want, how you want, as intense you want, and whenever you want.
Precisely as, when you were a child.
No rules, no stops sign, just your way, on repeat, against the odds.
Maximise your effort by LETTING GO OF LIMITS AND MENTAL CHAINS.
When your life starts to change, it is a sign you are shifting into a BETTER YOU.
It is a sign you began letting go.
Agnieszka